Hello Dolls,

We’ve all experienced a situation in our life where someone has wronged us. We all know the road to forgiveness is a difficult journey. It probably is one of the hardest things we have to go through in a relationship. Do you forgive the person or forget them? Or does it depend on the crime? The thing I’ve come to realize is that one cannot gauge the level of forgiveness you choose to give someone. It’s either your forgive them or you don’t. You can’t say well I’ll forgive them a little bit but still have a little bit of resentment in my heart towards them. I’ll forgive him for cheating on me but I’ll check his instagram and Facebook constantly to see where he is. Or I’ll forgive my friend for hurting me but secretly want to trip him/her every time I see them. No. You can’t do that when you forgive someone. It’s either you forgive the person wholeheartedly or you forget it. If not for the other person, for your own sanity. Walking around with emotional baggage is one of the biggest and heaviest burdens we as humans choose to bear. Emphasis on the word choose. You have a choice in life. You can either choose to accept what has happened and move on to the next level in your life or continue to relive the hurtful events of your past over and over again. Emphasis on the word past. Which means something that has already occurred and you can never change. Think about it like this. How can one drive if they are constantly looking in their rear view mirror? Would you not crash your car? You have to always have your eyes on the road. No U-Turns over here! It will make you feel so much better once you accept and forgive and/or forget those who have wronged you in your past. Or more importantly forgive yourself for the things you have done. Everyday is another opportunity to get it right. Don’t waste it.

Live, ♥ & roll on the floor laughing!